Feeling depressed! Just ranting...

Chealsy • 26. Babygirl born 4/15/16.
I am so excited for this pregnancy given that there was a chance I wouldn't be able to have children. I can't wait to announce it publicly to social media. My family is starting to find out slowly by word of mouth, however my husband and I haven't told his parents because they are nuts. My sister in law is currently pregnant and due in 5 weeks and after seeing what she has gone through with them not respecting her wishes about babyshower gifts and getting shots before the baby arrives is really making me stressed out and depressed. I just don't know what to do. Wait and not announce it and continue to keep this exciting secret to myself and not share with the world because I don't feel like dealing with them or not care if they know?! Rant over 😔