Was he being rude or being honest?

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So this morning my SO just tried to have sex with me this morning and then he just totally stopped. I waited a couple of minutes to see if he was going to say something to me but he didn't. So I broke the air and asked him what happen. He said that I'm am a lot looser. I told him that all I do is do my down time without toys. His response is I don't know what your doing when I'm not here but you have been loose a couple of times. That made me so upset. I don't want to have sex with him for a while because he said that.

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He was being a douche.

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What??? How long have you been with this asshole?? If it really were a concern, I think he could have brought it up nicer instead of just pushing you aside with disregard for your feelings like you are something he simply uses and no longer wants. I would leave.

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I guess it all depends on whether or not he's always rude. My man and me live in two different states (been together for two years). When me and him have sex for the first time in a while it's either, "fuck you're so tight" or one time he said the same thing. That one time he said it was a day or so after he said "show me how much you can stretch" on Skype, so I basically ripped my vagina open pleasing him. But he immediately assumed what I think most people will when they're in our situation. What you have to understand is it's not your fault. Next time say what I said "maybe you just got smaller" and he'll never say it again! Haha

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Mine feels loose with my husband because i get so turned on that its like damn waterfall down there. My husband has never said anything like that to me. Hes just being an asshole. A lot of the times when it feels really loose with sex its because hes not as girthy as usual, which happens sometimes. If my husband would have said that i would have punched him in the penis.

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Rude for sure.

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It is probably due to your body producing the hormone relaxin. It softens the ligaments in the pelvis and soften and widens the cervix in preparation for childbirth. But by doing Kegels exercises, you may tighten your cervix that way. Our bodies change drastically in many ways during pregnancy, which can be difficult for you and your partner at times. He needs to be supportive in this short and special time in your life.

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He's being a fucking ass hole. If he knew ANYTHING about vaginas he'd know they don't just "get loose." Caginas can stretch up to 10 times its size and go back to its original size. I suggest getting a MAN who actually knows your body and respects women. He sounds like a complete douche bag. Tell him maybe his penis just got smaller. What an ass hole. You could do better.

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Rude and honest aren't mutually exclusive.

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I think maybe he is cheating and tryin find a way out with you ... He was rude and is rude

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The vagina expands when aroused. He was being rude. Sorry that you had to hear that from someone you care about.

Was he being rude or being honest?

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