Did you labor start naturally???😩😩😩

Tierra • Proud mom of a 4 year old boy, Proud USMC wife,pregnant with baby #2. Still trusting God`s timing 🙏.
I'm starting to get frustrated I'm 39w 1d pregnant with my second and nothing's happening. At my appointment last week my cervix was high and I was only 1cm dilated. My question is did you ladies water break or contractions start on their own? My first pregnancy I got induced at 38/39 weeks so I have no idea of what I'm looking for....Any advise would be helpful right now.