Pubic hair...shave, wax or keep it all?!

Laura • After 4 years of TTC, finally conceived my miracle baby boy and gave birth in June 2020.
Awkward subject line, I know. But I wanna know what other ladies are dealing with. How do you keep your "area" groomed? I've only ever shaved and have never had luck with it. I always get red, burning and itchy razors bumps no matter how I do it! It's so irritating!
 And I have tried everything to shave in different ways with different products but nothing helps! And I've been trying different types of after shaving products too, still...nothing but bumps!
I need opinions on what to do b/c I know my husband doesn't care for pubic hair that much but I know the red bumps are worse to have down there rather than hair.