Need a bit of hope

J
My due date was the 17th of October,my mother came into town the 14 and leaves the 21st due to work,anybody went into labor without many signs before hand?? I've had light contractions,slight lower back pain feeling like I need to pee all the time and I've been losing my mucus plug,I just need some type of hope he could come out before she leaves 😞😞😞