Ok ladies any advice is appreciated.

After having my daughter in "97"I went on depo for 1 1/2 yrs.after stopping this had irregular cycles(doc blamed weight gain) From age 19 until 25 my daughters father and I ttc (just having unprotected sex regularly ) we had 3miscarriages and then gave up pretty much. We ended up seperating.(3yrs ago I had gastric bypass& lost 210lbs within 13months)Currently, I met the love of my life 5 1/2 yrs ago after being friends for 3yrs we began our love story. He knew of problems, we agreed it was in Gods plan. July 4th of last yr we found out we were blessed which was very exciting and nerve racking at the same time. We had a very smooth pregnancy and had our beauty on valentines day this yr. We got pregnant when she was about 3wks old but sadly miscarried at 9.5 wks back in june. We havent been charting until last month.all of this is new to me and honestly very confusing. Since having baby in feb this yr I got period mid of may and have had 5cycles (32days) until now. It was due the 13th I tested on the 17th got a neg then had some bleeding yesterday and thought it was here but within 3hrs there was nothing.Idk what to think or even do. Idk take another home test or not?

Sry so long but again any stories or advice is appreciated. Thank u.