Feeling like I have no chance

Keri
So, this month has really been a failure for me :-( I started off super optimistic, buying pre-seed and using opks... this was going to be my month! Then, my hubby decides we should take the month off! We bd'd on the 18th and I thought I had a +opk that night, but I tested today and got a darker bfp and he isn't down to bd. That may have been my only chance and I feel like it was off just a few days. I'm so bummed. I'm out this month unless those little spermies lived 36hrs or so up there.... one can only hope! Good luck to you all!