New and confused about everything.

Amy • Married cat lady and mommy to Charlotte Rey 💖
Hi all! I'm new to Glow, conceiving, and everything that goes along with it. First off, I was on the Ortho Evra Bc patch for 6 years. Hubby & I decided we wanted to start trying and I took my patch off mid-cycle on Oct 8. 5 days later I started a my period. Much heavier than anybody ever had while on birth control. It lasted four days. Glow said the day after that I would be fertile so we began bd'ing right away for the first couple of days. Then we bought opks and I've used them every day since with them being negative each time. Does anyone have any insight as to when I may ovulate? Or how long after being off Bc I will ovulate? My sex drive is very low. My cm is light, almost dry with spurts of ewcm. I can't seem to determine my cervical position. It's very high because I can barely touch it. I'm just trying to figure this all out. Af isn't due until the second week of November. Or at least I think. I was a 28 cycle on Bc, I don't remember what I was like before. If anyone has tips or advice, I am willing to hear it! Thanks!! Baby dust to everyone 😁✨