Frustrated with one lined dipsticks

Amber • We are in our 40s ttc. I have had one son, age now in his mid 20s from a former relationship and he has a set of twin boys, age 20 and a daughter in.her late 20s from a previous relationship. Honestly we quit "trying" and have the "if it happens" attitude
I'm 35, my cycle is 23 days and I was suposed to see AF yesterday. I had some minimal cramping yesterday and my breasts have been sore, itchy nipple and my CM is thick and creamy the last 2 days. It's been dry for the 3 days prior. I'm about over these single line sticks. Anyone else have a 23 day cycle? Should I wait longer to test? Or just wait till AF is definately super late?