My SO has impulsive issues. we been trying over a year to have baby #1. He has Erecticle dysfunction which i understand n dont bring up cuz its a medical issue but viagra fixes it which is great. my issue with him is i am a willing participant but he constantlt maturbates n was a porn addict until i put filters on the computers n cell phone. his constant masturbation has left him dry when we have sex he cant ejaculate. this has interfered with getting prego big time. he has been attending counsrling sessions. he was reluntsnt but now says he kinda likes goin to learn about himself. i mention marital counseling for both of us today n he was didnt want to go but said he will go to shut me up. i just feel like he doesnt get how this is effecting us. he claims he has went fr daily masturbation to weekly. i just dont kno what is wrong with him. it frustrates me that usually people have issues havin kids that out of there control not problems they induce in themselves. i just think he is selfish as i am in my 30's n dont have the rest of my life as a man do to have kids