Sex & Relationships
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Will it ever be the way it was?
Things have been really bad between me and my hubby. We have both been feeling very unappreciated. We both have also been holding everything in. Until a few night ago when we blew up. We fought in a way we never have before. We tore each other to shreds. Finally calming down we then sat and talked for hours. I thought that whole thing brought both of us to see what the other needed. I've been doing my best to pick up where he felt I needed to. I've been making his lunch even just as an extra way to show him I appreciate him going to work every day. I thought things were going well. I mean he was slacking where I asked him to pick up but I thought well he might feel the same way but we're trying and that's what matters. I even finally started feeling like having sex again. I was really excited for it even. Then after we put the kids down he started flipping out on me and saying mean things. I tried to just talk to him and figure out why he flipped but he kept jumping over me and cutting me off. He gripped me out for 2 hours and then tried to have sex and when I said no he started gripping me out again because I said we would. Sorry I don't feel like it now I'm feeling pretty unloved and defeated. I even told him that and he just got mad. Now I'm just laying here crying wishing this whole day never happened. Idk what to do right now.