Sex pain?

Question

Is it normal for your second time to hurt more then the first?

Answer

It depends. If the guy is rough and doesn't care when you cry out, it can hurt worse the second time because you're tissue has already been damaged. I was sexually abused multiple times by the same man (in close time proximity) and it was incredibly painful every time.

Someone who loves you won't put you through pain. He'll listen. He won't just be in it for himself. He'll care for your body as if it's his own.

Pain can also be a sign of an infection, so get checked out by your doctor, especially if you experience itching during the day.

That being said, if you are healthy down there, sex shouldn't hurt. The female body needs time to get hot; when the man is putting forth loving effort to make you feel good, your vagina will self lubricate. If you're not well lubricated it can feel painful. Lubricant is your best friend... Supplement the natural stuff with some condom friendly lube. You can find it at Walmart.

Hugs to you! And wait for that special person that will value, love, and respect you and you're body! You're of infinite worth :)

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