Tmi scared to have sex

Ju
So I'm 13+5 days pregnant and my sex drive is finally coming back but because of my previous loss and me spotting around 9/10 weeks I'm too afraid to actually have sex. I don't wanna have sex and spot again because it scared me enough when it happened in the early parts of my pregnancy. I want to have sex with my bf and I've tried to calm down and tell myself it won't hurt anything but I still can't go ahead with it. Is anyone else going thru this or gone thru this? I don't know what to do...