Can't reach orgasm with vibrator

So I've been using a vibrator for months now and while it feels spectacular, I never seem to reach climax. Just yesterday I felt this warmth build up internally in my stomach and it started to diffuse through my body but then it stopped. Could that be what an orgasm feels like when it is just starting to build? I would think my vibrator could do the trick but it hasn't. Any tips?
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When you feel that, just know that you we getting VERY close. You just have to not focus on trying to have an orgasm and just let your body go. Lose self control! 

Al

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I normally but the vibrator on my clit,that helps me

Li

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For me orgasming is a mental game... if I lose focus for a second I have to restart the buildup

Cy

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Sounds like you are getting close! Have you tried tightening your abs or visualising the heat concentrating on your clit? Always works for me!

As

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Maybe try and concentrate more :) 

A

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Everyone has different things that turn them on so maybe a vibrator just isn't for you maybe try something else , but if you enjoy it definately do it as well!!! 🙃