I pretty much had an arranged/forced marriage. We only knew each other for seven months before we married, and we've only been married for seven months (together a little over a year). He's abusive and only cares about himself. I had to leave my family to be with him but he keeps putting off when we can go back to see them. It was August, but then 'someone else got that two weeks off work' so he couldn't (no one else did, I checked the schedule). Then it was February but 'the weather will be too bad to fly'. Now supposedly it's April, but I'm not holding out much hope. He ignores me all the time, only showing interest in me when he wants something. He uses me for money, and if I try saying no he gets angry and violent. He threatened to kill my guinea pig because I said no to buying him a $200 gaming controller. It's stressing me out so much. I can't afford a divorce and he refuses to file despite the fact he keeps announcing he doesn't love me.