MIL problems

This may be kinda long but sorry... I need advice. So my husband's from KY and I'm from ohio. We met online and got married a year after dating and knowing each other. Anyways so I feel his mother and grandma doesn't like me. Just by the way they don't talk to me and act... I feel awkward. And even spending the night at his mom's would make me feel even worse. I'm miserable because he leaves me to go to the farm with his mom and grandma and they don't talk to me. I sat at his grandma's for 6 hours kinda by myself and it was horrible. And we wants to go down there for christmas but I have 6 of my own and he has one. And they live 5 hours from us. We won't go by himself and the only way I go is if I stay in a hotel. But he's having a hard time with my decision. And my family has been there and took him in as there own son, grandson, nephew.. EVERYTHING. I don't wanna go and hr bitches that I dont. What do I do???

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