Would you let your husband have a woman massage therapist?

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Would you let your husband have a female doctor? Female hair stylist? Female dentist? Give me a break. They're professionals. The insecurity on these boards runs rampant.

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I'm a registered massage therapist and honestly it's things that this that give my career a bad name. Women think their husbands come in and get "the full package". My job is already sexualized enough with people thinking we do nasty things. We are damned trained professionals, I wouldn't put my 3 years of college, thousands of dollars on registration testing and hundreds of dollars on reg fees, just so I could diddle around your husband. That's just ridiculous. Get with the times people, massage therapy and a valid and necessary therapy. Trust me, I don't want to touch your husbands hairy back more than I have to

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How is this even a thing??  I cannot believe that woman fear for their partners so much. Doesn't seem that healthy to me.

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Damn so much insecurities, why is it even an issue?

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Well, my husbands 30 year old massage therapist decided they should be "friends" outside of his one hour weekly sessions. She was texting him everyday and I'm pretty sure she wasn't asking him about an appointment at 11pm. It's things and people like this that give your profession a bad name.

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Let's be honest. Our men would likely become a tad possessive if they knew a man were to be massaging their woman. They may not show it but they're thinking it.

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My friend is a message therapist, they are extremely professional and take thier job seriously they do not mess with clients and keep everything business like

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As a massage therapist I find this question a bit offensive. The gender of the person working to improve your husbands well being shouldn't matter!

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Seriously? Should a married woman/woman in a relationship have a make gyno or OB for the birth of her baby?? Seriously? I personally wouldn't risk my license to try and  seduce a client.

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Well sure, men love to be touched by a woman.  This is just plain wrong.  Better never come near my husband.  Does anyone even consider the wives of these husbands lining up for a massage?  It is truly sickening.  Keep you damn hands off of husbands!