! A child will not ruin you or your life.It will make it a lot harder yes but NO it will not ruin your life!!!!a child can never ruin you or your life!My baby will be here in Feb and im 18 and I will try be the best mom in the world for my baby girl!I have grown up and accepted the responsibility along side her amazing father and we have grown up so much and I cant wait for her to be here!She has the best of everything and I will make sure she always has what she needs!!She has not ruined my life but has made it worth living and I haven't met her yet and I already love her unconditionally!