I'm in such a dilemma i don't want any more kids but im terrified of getting my tubes tied because i have this fear of surgery im considering the pill but I'm afraid that i might forget to take it... I don't want any slip ups i don't know what to do... I want to do whats best but this fear is intense.. I wont even get an epidural because im so scared of needles and the effects i went natural with my first just because of my fear of needles so im just at a standstill with this...anyone have any helpful advice on how to deal with this