Please hear me out! Thoughts??

Kaykay • Marine wife, 3 fur babies, and a whole lot of Love 💕
Nipples are pierced and thought maybe because I yanked one but have been hurting a lot more &way more sensitive.
They can touch something or skin (like lean against husband) and it hurts... Before that I had my right Areola itch a lot
My period is irregular
I started October 2nd .
It's now nov 3rd... 
No protection, we r ttc as of when he got back home oct 19th from deployment...
Ive been. Off birth control for about a year...and still no BFP.
Here's my October and nov calendar.
Does anyone know anything about preseed?
Hoping if not already, to be pregnant in December -February