Houseguest Question

Kelly
Hello Ladies! I am curious as to what other women would do in this situation. We have the good fortune to have rented a beautiful vacation house for a few weeks. We invited a few friends to come stay with us next weekend. A good friend of ours responded, saying plus 1. This plus 1 happens to be his girlfriend, who we do not get along with. They broke up a few months ago and she sent me harassing text messages and unfriended me on FB. (I can't even believe this drama - we are 35 by the way!) Even before the breakup it is safe to say we did not get along. Our friend is aware of this weirdness (he had apologized for her behavior), yet he still invited her to our house, as they are back together. I called him to explain that I don't feel comfortable inviting her to the get together. He is making her apologize to me and still wants to bring her. I value our friendship, so I will be polite, but does anyone else think this is rude? I'm curious as to how other women would react.