We discovered I wasn't the "problem" #ttc


After 17 months of emotional let downs, prayers for blue lines, a dozen doctor visits, an hsg, and a referral to a repro endo... we found out today that my fiance has extremely low motility.

There is always quick judgment to blame the female when fertility issues strike. I wish we would have been more thorough sooner, but I'm thankful we have answers and a new direction.

Has anyone else faced this reality? How did you Handle it?

My SO is struggling a bit (pride wise), but I assure him we will get past this, as a team.