Am I overreacting?

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Should I be okay with my boyfriend calling other girls got because I'm not. I want him to love me and not lust after other girls. He is very upfront about telling me things about other girls

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You deserve a guy who is only going to have eyes for u idc about his sex drive or this or that if he loved u or cared about you or the relationship he wouldn't b talking about other girls in that way. Find a guy that is gonna treat u well and not be looking at other girls.

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Definitely not. That's something that would be a deal breaker for me. No matter how long we've dated, if he has the nerve and the decency to compliment another female IN FRONT OF YOU and not think twice about how that may make you feel, that's not right.

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Hell no. My SO knows better than that. That's not okay, unless you pointed it out first. And even if I said "she's super pretty, isn't she" to my SO, he'd still hesitate to agree. It'd be something like "uhhh..yeah. Sure."

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He's a guy. No matter what you tell him, he's gonna look at other girls. It's kinda mean that he's being so obvious about it around you though. And if he had any respect for you hed just keep quiet about it instead of blatantly making you feel bad about it.

You're not overreacting at all. I wouldn't go end it right away. Talk to him about it. Get angry. He needs to know you're upset. Give it a while. If nothing changes, maybe you need to find someone who can respect you.

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I sorta have the same thing though it's over texts. My boyfriend doesn't tell me he's texting other girls but when I go on his phone sometimes by accident because he doesn't give me the passcode or anything I find texts over fb of him and other girls and it drives me crazy! But most the time he's by my side so that's okay and half the time I've read the messages there's literal nothing there.. I feel like he just likes to see me obsessive over him.. I don't know why honestly!

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I understand that my boyfriend looks at other girls; it's just human nature. Sometimes they don't know they do it. Just like I don't care that he watches porn, as long as he knows that I'm not going to do some of the stuff that they do, and visa versa. When he does check out other girls, he admits it. I'd rather he be honest to me then to lie to my face. Sometimes we both check out girls and say stuff like "wow they are nice boobies" and stuff like that. I think I'm just a really laid back girlfriend. If I stop him from doing it, he's gonna want to do it more. The rules are
*no touching
*thinking
*compairing
I always know he's not going to cheat because he's always going to be honest on his feelings. I love him and he loves me.

THE DAY HE TREATS YOU LOKE SHIT AND SAYS STUFF LIKE "you're not good like that" LEAVE THAT MOTHERFUCKER

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No, that isn't right to do. That is very disrespectful in my opinion. I'm sure my boyfriend still thinks other girls are attractive and stuff, but he should ultimately be focused on telling YOU that YOU are beautiful.

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I think it depends on what his intentions are.

If he's doing it cause that's who he is that's one thing but if he's doing it to make you jealous that's not ok

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Not okay

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