Need Reassurance!

Ladies, I'm a FTM and 9 weeks pregnant.  I had my first apt last week where we seen our baby and the heartbeat of 174.  A few days ago I started spotting pink discharge.  My midwife said it's normal and I did stop spotting after 3 days. 
I need some advice/reassurance on what you guys do to help with FTM anxiety.  I'm so scared & worried, I don't feel like I can allow myself to get excited.  😑