I have always been wondering if it was only me who had this "orgasm block" which simply means there's something in my head that doesn't let me achieve orgasm at all or makes it very hard. I know I am capable of climaxing through masturbation of course but with a partner it took us about 2 months of trying until I finally had one. [Even that time it took us about an hour until I was able to rub one out while we were having sex. Not to mention I never had an orgasm through oral or hand stimulation. We have enough foreplay as well so it can't be that reason either. ]

SO the question is how do you kick the orgasm block, how do you achieve it quicker?

I understand that this is a very complicated question so I'm simply asking about personal experiences and tips :)