Is it ok?

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My wife and I have been married for about a year. Before we got married she had a female FWB and after getting married I was ok with them hooking up. I have been wanting a 3 some with my wife and FWB but she doesn't want to because it would be cheating for me. Do y'all thick it is cheating?

I use to work 7am-10pm so I was ok with it because I would mainly be at work too tired. Now I work 8-9 so it's a bit better but I would still like to try. And no I do not think of it as cheating for her

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If she thinks you would be cheating then I'd class her as cheating on you! It sounds like double standards

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That's a horrible double standard and is a load of bull shit.

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If you told her it's okay for her to be with that person, then she isn't cheating like some people might be saying. But it's definitely a double standard. That's not fair.

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Cheating is cheating no matter if your married or dating .it's still cheating

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I think it is cheating, and is cheating if she is still hooking up with the fwb

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You were ok with them hooking up before AND after you two were married....what's the issue now? I'm confused. Its not cheating; you okay'd it.  Maybe you could talk to your SO and lay some rules down for a 3some. That may make your SO more comfortable.

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