I'm so excited about finding this group. I've posted about this in a couple of others and don't seem to find many people in the same situation. I am 28 ( 29 next month) and have 2 girls, 7 and 9 ( 10 next month) and I was going through a divorce so I irrationally made the decision to have a tubal done. It was for the best at the time because I've literally raised my kids alone except for the last 2 years...I got remarried and we're happy. He's a wonderful father to the girls and we want one more. He's 27 and has 3 children, one boy and twin girls that died due to being born prematurely. I'm so scared about the surgery and possible complications. We plan to have a reversal done in March but I'm so nervous.