My ex husband and I split back in 2012 we have a 7 year old together. He does nothing for my son,hasn't paid child support in over a year (we're dealing with dhr on this now) he rarely ever calls or comes on his weekends to see my son,his excuse is always he don't have the money or something else. And my son..who my now husband and I raise,has a horrible attitude,very disrespectful to me and is just plain mean to me with the way he acts,but yet to him his dad is this great amazing person who does no wrong. He doesn't understand and I would never tell him to put this off on him because of his age ..but I haven't legally had to let him see his speech donor since we divorced because in my county you have to take a parenting class and if not you lose your rights until then. But I've continued to let my son see him when he shows because he will just hate me more in the end for it. I have no idea what do to. We do punish him for the way he acts. Taking things away,time out etc.. Has anyone else gone through anything like this? And if so what do I do? I feel like he hates me and I do everything wrong I'm just the worst mother ever and I have no idea what to do..I stay stressed over this and I am 29 weeks pregnant as well.. Any advice would be appreciated..