DTR?!

Question

So I'm not sure what this guy and I am  I've asked me what he would call what we are and he says "Us". He says he is gay but then he always jerks of to me and says he loves me and that I turn him on so much. We don't live in the same city and I don't know what to do.Im scared that if I push it I'll lose him.  Any advice?

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Let that go. This will not end well for you. Free up your time for someone who will give you the respect you deserve.

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No no no. Just no. Sounds like you're being used. That's just not going to end well. Let go of that and wait for someone who treats you the way you deserve. Not like a porn site... Sorry, but that's what it sounds like. Good luck and hugs to you.

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You CAN'T lose something you don't have. Any two people can be an 'us'. If he can't say the two of you are exclusive then you're wasting your time. Also, he told you he's gay, I think more bisexual though.

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Drop this guy immediately! It sounds like he's confused and doesn't know what he wants, and is stringing you along in the meantime. You are only going to get hurt in this situation.

It is very clear that this dude is playing games and taking advantage of you. Put your foot down! Wait for someone to come along who actually respects you and wants a mature relationship with you.

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DTR?!

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