I ask this because I worked with people who have mild disabilities and I absolutely loved it and thought that's what I want to do with my life, I then got a job working with people who sever disabilities. No speech, seizures, nappies at 25years old, in a care home where the parents see them once a week. I now strongly feel I couldn't do it, not because i couldn't look after them but because I want to see my children grow up, cross the road on their own, learn to drive, have relationships and all those things which I know isn't possible for the people I looked after and their quality of life is just so far from what you want for your children in my opinion .