So lately I see alot of responses to thing that hust seem invalid. Like answer, because I said so. Really the best some of you ladies have is if you cant wait 9 months then you have a problem. One glass of wine, dying your hair, eating a fry, using cleaning supplies, driving a car, eating meat, eating veggies, and etc. There are cases that state everything on this list needs to be avoided in pregnancy but its impossible. Unless you live of air, and do not move. Pregnancy is all about moderation, comman sense, and proper healthcare. Just do what you think is best and stop shaming others. So my question is.... Is stating that if you can not wait 9 months a real answer or a non educated one that people who are close minded throw out.