Perfectionist Planner

This is month 11 that we have been TTC and I have reached the point where I want to 'skip' trying for the next couple of months because - frankly I don't want this next child to have the same or close birthday as my 3yo!! And plus the summers and that month are just so hectic and always go, go, GO - that I just don't want to add anything else to the chaos!!! Is there anyone else out there who is with me on this?!? Feeling discouraged! What should I do????