It's my birthday today ☺ (it's 2am here haha) 18th of Nov!

My partner last night was playing games with our mates and he was asked if he would play some tomorrow (on my bday) I was like "nooooo it's my birthday, it's all about meeee!" (Previously stated I get some damn good birthday sex for a side present ;D) and he just waved it off.

I wasn't demanding or anything, I said it in a pretty lighthearted tone, but am I being selfish??? I make birthdays a big deal, especially mine and his, I make it all about him on his so I would like it to be the same.