Very frustrated!

AF was due on 11/14 and still hasn't come. My husband and I have been ttc and every month it is heartbreaking everytime AF pays a visit. Well I am 13 dpo and still testing negative 😞 No sign of AF besides mild cramping but nothing compared to when I'm going to get my period. (I usually can barely stand my menstral cramps) but these feel barely there. 
I'm trying to wait a couple of days to retest but I am so anxious! 😔