Help please!

Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he doesn't want to talk for a long period of time, yet... 
Anyway his mom suggested that when we have days apart we don't talk for the whole day, I'm going through a lot and I don't think it will work us not talking especially all day as I'm used to talk to him, it's hurt me, as he wants to always listen to his mom and I wouldn't mind but I'm going through a lot at the moment and he knows it, I've tried talking to him but he just lets it slip and it's like I get no say and his whole family will start to hate me? How can I not be arsed not talking to him!? Put in mind I've lost all my friends and I have no proper family and my mom is always poorly? HELP! It's getting to much on top of my problems