Wow I need out *rant*

Elizabeth • Student and former nanny and daycare attendant. Just making my way through the world learning and teaching
So my husband doesn't know I'm leaving at the end of the semester which is about 3-4 weeks away...that being said he had been great for the last few days and was really making me second guess my decision....until today. 
All day he has been awful except for when I spent $40 on food....$40 I didn't have to spend really. Outside of that brief 20 minute period he has been AWFUL! He thinks he is playing and when I say to stop he doesn't and his come back is "can't take the heat get outta the kitchen!" Which seriously bugs me! He has also been using "when I know, you'll know" on me and his parents for weeks now about his out processing from the military. None of us like this but he bullies me and calls me a nag if I tell him to stop or ask him to do something...
He has 100% reaffirmed that I need to leave ASAP! The verbal abuse and the emotional abuse has to end and the only way to make that possible is to leave and go to my parents. 
24 and getting divorced is not how I pictured life but better to do it now than to wait until things get worse or turn physical. 
Need strength from the strong women here in Glow, this isn't easy to do.