Herpes?:(

Okay ladies, so I've been sexually active since I was 17 I'm now 21. I've had 5 partners, and I've been with my current boyfriend 2 years now. I've stayed getting reoccurring yeast infections since I was a baby, but when I became sexually active I now get reoccurring bacteria infections. Now I do clean myself properly and I go to my gynecologist regularly.. I was pregnant back in January and lost my baby, and I had a situation a few weeks later at work where my right side felt numb and I went to the ER. I was then told I had a very very small cyst on my right ovary and it was nothing to worry about. So for the past 2 weeks, I've been having some discharge and I knew it was a bacteria infection, I have been having lower back pain and mild cramps. Now I've also been having this super terrible pain inside my vagina on the right side, it's a sharp pain especially during intercourse. So I seen my gynecologist today, she went went in and she instantly knew I had my bacteria infection, she said my back pain is muscular and then I was further explaining the pain inside so she couldn't find anything and then went a lot deeper, and said it was a sore that is healing and she said she believes it was either chlamydia or herpes... So I'm freaking out!!!! She said she wasn't going to try breaking it open to get fluid because it's nothing to break and she didn't test me for the chlaymida because she knows I don't have that. This is the first this has happened to me and I've never had anything of this sort, so I'm just so scared now. How do I live with this?