Shaving??

Question

So I'm a virgin and I have no clue about what todo about my hair when having sex? I can't get a wax because I wouldn't want my mum to know I'm thinking about having sex, so I would have to shave.. Do lads care or not?

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All guys are different! Some like hair, others like trimmed, others still like completely bald. Three years ago, when my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, (we were both virgins) I had never shaved down there. He didn't mind it at all. Then I decided to change it up a little and try shaving. He likes it that way too. He says sometimes he likes when I let it grow (sorry if that's tmi lol) and sometimes shaved. It really doesn't matter to him. So it really depends on the guy! It's your body, so I'd say definitely go with what you're comfortable with! Go slow when you shave and be super careful, if you decide to go that route. You wouldn't want to cut down there!😳 also, to prevent razor burn, I know it sounds crazy, but try using deodorant (yes, even down there!) right after you shave. there's something in deodorant that soothes painful bumps and razor burn. I do it every time I shave and haven't had razor burn for a LONG TIME. I don't shave more than about once a week though because I will definitely get razor burn if I do! Also, I occasionally even put a little lotion on it which also prevents razor burn. It stings at first, but then it's really nice afterward lol. I don't know, everyone's skin is different, I was just trying to be helpful!😊💜

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They shouldn't care; it's your body, so do what you like, but don't shave for your partner's sake!

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It's whatever you're comfortable with, I really don't like having hair anywhere other than my head so I shave - I had exactly the same problem about the waxing idea so I feel your pain there bab but I know lads that have been with girls that haven't shaved and to be honest they really didn't care, they were just enjoying having sex with that person so really it's just your personal preference

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Whatever you're comfortable with. I prefer mine sans-hair but my guy is okay when I get lazy to maintain it. Just own your appearance and everyone will accept it.

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If you want to shave make sure you shave in the direction of your public hair to prevent irritation. But if you don't want to shave don't.. I would suggest just trimming the pubic hair so it's at least groomed

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Some men love a Bush and some don't! It's totally up to you! And don't do it for the sake of a man or because you see so many ladies say they do! Its totally up to you and how you feel about it down there! Just remember you'll always have to keep it up and shave it! But this should be your choice! If you do decide to do so be very careful and shave downwards do not shave upwards towards the way your hair grows! This will itch and get razor bumps the following day! Good luck on what you decide!

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Based on my first experience and having NOBODY tell me literally anything.. I would shave. Worse thing he can do is say he prefers hair. But otherwise having too much seems too be worse than not having enough. It's annoying. Lol just my opinion based on the first guy I was with which was bad enough as it is lol

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Thankyou guys, I sometimes think I over worry but just want my first time to be Perfect ! :)

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