So I've been with my SO for 9 years and he loves to play in his computer like all the time except when he's at work..when I get back from work I like to unwind grab some tea and drink bottle of wine (equivalent to 2 glasses) every 3 days like a gap of 3 or 4 days....I have a cheeky Wednesday if it's not a school night (work next morning) ..yet he has a go at me tonight saying I drink too much even though I last had a bottle the weekend just gone..I have a can of cider or so here and there maybe 2 or 3 days after my last drink but I never drink spirits or everyday for that matter I just couldn't!! I love a glass to unwind and sit and relax after work but the other half really ripped into me tonight for it! Now I'm not gonna leave him cuz we love each other and I'm not questioning that but does anyone else's husbands/ fiancées do the same? I mean he has his computer (his guilty pleasure) I have my wine twice a week ( mine) I did try talking to him about it but he wouldn't let me speak kept saying shhh every time I tried to get my point across..I just gave up