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Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years and I feel stuck. He hardly works, never wants to do anything, smokes a lot of weed, doesn't seem to want to achieve anything or move forward in his life. When we met I was 17 and he was 18, now I'm 20 and he is 21. I am trying to get myself together and feel like he is holding me back, which makes me really upset. 
What should I do? I love him to bits, he is my best friend, but I feel like it's time for me.

Answer

Sounds like you know what to do-
 If you stay you'll mostly likely resent him more & more...
Improve yourself, he's a weight that doesn't seem interested in change- don't feel bad, you need to do what's best for you -

Guys like that usually don't change even when it means they're going to lose the relationship-

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I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple weeks ago. He was addicted to video games, never wanted to go out with me, always wanted to nap, have sex, and watch anime and he considered that "hanging out with me." I personally feel so much better. He's 21 and I'm 23. I feel like he stopped growing as a person while I was moving forward, trying to get my future career and life together. It's really up to you in what you do, and I know it's hard but sometimes it's worth it. Plus, you can always to be together again in the future if he gets himself together.

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I feel you've already made a decision whether you realize it or not!

Setting goals, being driven and having a healthy amount of ambition is one of the most attractive qualities in a guy!

Don't ever settle or lower your standards because the right man will rise to meet them. 
You deserve the best, make sure that's what you're getting!

Good luck :)

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