Apparently, she thought I'd be mad at her for getting pregnant the first month she and her husband started trying. It never even occurred to me that she might think I'd be mad at her. I was a little worried that she might pull away from me for fear that I'd ruin her joy because my husband and I are having a tough time conceiving. Why do we as women put out such competitive vibes that even creating a life is a race to be first? If you're like me and my best friend, take a moment to show your girl friend support. It may just bring you a little bit closer and dispel any fears you're both harboring.