Since my MC, my bf and I have been so distant. I know men and women grief different ways. But while I've been more upset than him not only bc we lost our child, also bc I've been in extreme pain. Today was my first day back at work, so I haven't been making money. I understand that means he has to work twice as hard, but these are things out of my control. He has to pay my portion of the bills this month, and he gets really stressed about finances. I try to help him not stress as much as possible, bc he's bipolar and schizophrenic and I don't want him to have an "episode". We usually had sex every two days, well we can't now bc I'm still healing from the D&C. I know people will say just give him oral, which I love doing. It's just I'm always in pain, sleeping from the meds,or he's at work. I just feel like if I didn't have this MC everything would have been fine. Everything is changing now and I hate it. I need advice! Help please.