No sex drive at all 😔

Rikki • I love Jesus, my husband, my family, & my dogs! Finally pregnant after 5 years of trying!!! 🙏🏼
Any ideas on how to raise labido? I have no desire for sex which makes ttc feel like such a routine. I have a hormone imbalance caused by pcos which I'm pretty sure that's most of the cause. We've tried spicing up the bedroom with toys, a sex calendar, candles, etc and nothing works for me. My husband feels like it's him no matter how much I tell him it's not...I truly think he knows it's not him but I can understand why he feels like it is since I'm never in the mood. In the past year+ I have only been horny twice...TWICE!! It sucks... I miss the feeling. He also always compares our sex life to my history with ex's (I absolutely hate it) since I used to be a lot more into sex. I just don't know what to do 😢