Are you yourself around your SO?

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I've been with my boyfriend for little over a year now & I don't think I'm fully myself around him. I can be goofy around him, but not too goofy. I don't fart around him. I can't sing or dance around him. And I'm sure there's other little things that I can't do around him that I can't think of at the moment. I know it's due to me being super insecure. Anyone else on the same boat?

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I would never date anybody that I could not completely be myself around.

That why my SO is my bestfriend.  Because he knows EVERYTHING about me.  We even poop with the door open sometimes.

3 years and still going strong.

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it can take a while to totally open up to your partner, don't worry, it's normal!

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I was like that with my ex. I didn't realize until now that that relationship just wasn't even real. My current boyfriend is dating the REAL me. I'm an introvert 110% but I catch myself singing, dancing, and being completely WEIRD with him lol.

Just this past Monday, we were cuddling after sex and I let out a fart on accident. Not only did he laugh but he said it was so cute and cuddled me even harder. Of course I was mortified at first, but he really made me feel like I can be myself without any fear and believe me, that's an amazing feeling...

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I use to be that way until we moved in together. I still don't fart in front of him but that's because I don't do that in front of no one lol

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If I couldn't fart in front of him, that would be a problem, especially when pregnant lol! I'm totally and completely myself in front of him and have been since shortly after we started dating. Been married almost 8
Years now :)

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Yes, 9 years and he doesn't mind my farts. lol

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My husband is my best friend, and I am myself around him. However, he and I do not fart in front of each other, lol. Its been 4 years, and he still leaves the room to fart! I don't fart in front of anyone...ever, if possible lol.

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I've been with him for over 5 years now and he's seen a baby come out of my vag. Not much else I can hide from him. Lol

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I've been with my man almost 3 years and I have NEVER darted in front of him. I've never been that way with any other man. He even tells me to do it and I just can't. May be a respect thing. Idk. I do, however sing in front of him. Always. I have to have my music on while cooking and cleaning lol. And the whole dancing thing... I've been trying to work up the nerve to do something sexy for him lol but I'm 100% myself with him.

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Well I am myself, but I don't fart in front of him. But I don't like to fart in front of anyone just cause I don't appreciate when people do it to me! 😜  He doesn't fart in front of me either though. Just out of consideration, not really out of embarrassment. But it may take some time for you to warm up and that's okay! Everyone is different. Just once yor confidence grows with him and yourself you'll find yourself being more comfortable being yourself.

Are you yourself around your SO?

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