I really need advise. I used to find it endearing that my husband wanted to tell me absolutely everything that he's doing. Our only rule is that I get one day a month to completely chill out. I was in an accident last year and haven't gotten a moment of privacy since. But now, I just find it annoying and stressful. I feel like a parent rather than a spouse. Am I selfish or justified? I don't know how to feel about all of this.