I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together almost 2 years, he will be 28 in December and I'll be 21 in February. We had a hard time at first with our age because he never messed with anyone younger and it was different. His family loves me and us together, but I have the more dysfunctional family that judges everything. So it was hard at first. But we honestly do love each other and love being with one another. His brother has a girlfriend and her birthday is coming up, so she invited a group of people to go out to eat and hen a lounge for her birthday. I have to work on this particular day, and I honestly just am not one that had many friends or likes going out too much. So, I asked him if he was going and he said he didn't think so. Now today he was saying how it was last minute and then he said plus they would card you at the lounge later anyway so it's not that serious. But I don't want to be the reason he's not going... He says I'm not but I feel as if I am the reason he's not going and I'm not the type to say he can't do anything if he wants... It really makes me feel bad that he can't do everything with me like his brothers and their girls can and his cousins... I'm not one to like parties, clubs, lounges etc.. I'm just not big on that and I've been to them and all that, but I really don't enjoy it. It honestly makes me feel terrible. & I don't know how to feel😔 I love him and I know he loves me but I feel like my age upsets him at times and he never believes me when I say I'm not one to like being out, but I'm honestly not, I focus on school, work and getting myself where I want in the future, I have my own everything and I'm very awkward with others and always have been and he doesn't believe me.. I mean I have no friends but him and my immediate family. 😔😔😔