Compared to having a healthy pregnancy, this is so petty but I am 20 weeks and have gained about 16 pounds. I feel like it's all in my upper belly. I can feel the baby bump when I lie down but just feel like my belly (not the baby part) has gotten huge. You can't tell I am pregnant. I know a lot of this is because I was obese when I got pregnant (although proud to say I lost 65 pounds this year) but feeling bummed I just feel fat and don't look pregnant. So jealous of all of the beautiful baby bumps and bellies I see posted. Okay petty rant over, just had to share.