But now he is doing things with his daughter and not inviting me. It started with phone calls. He now only calls his daughter when I am not around (when I would be around I would usually always ask to talk to her too). Then last month she had an assembly at her school where they sang songs. My husband didn't tell me about it!! I didn't hear about it until the next day when she asked me why I wasn't there!!! NOW he is starting to make lunch dates with her and not tell me! It just happened last weekend. He told me he went to a friends house then decided to take his daughter to lunch without inviting me!! 

Step moms, has this ever happened to you?? I am so frustrated! I want to spend time with her too!!