So Pissed!

Ok so C/S is scheduled for Monday me and my husband are super excited. Problem is we decided early on that nobody but our daughter was going to come visit the first day as its major surgery, I had tons of issues with my first baby and really wanted our privacy as that first day doctors and nurses are all in your business and we wanted our bonding time with the little one. Well now some of our family is making it about them saying they are hurt and putting our business on social media. Im so upset right now. I realize they are excited but this is a decision that I feel should be respected. :(