My brother n sis in law have been together for 15 yrs now been married for almost that long n have been trying n trying to have a baby. When I got pg with my daughter whose now 5 yrs old it was not planned at all n I know my bro n sis love her very much but I also know it hurts them knowing I didn't have to try with her it just happened n now here I am again pg n it wasn't planned I was suppose to go have surgery that might have taken away my chances of having another baby but instead I find out I'm pg n I have to wait to have surgery n my bro n sis in law acted like they were soooo happy for me but deep down I just know they r upset that they haven't been able to have a baby n I will now have 2. I just don't know how to make it up to them or to tell them how sorry I am